Clearing myths, then agreeing the frame
Back to the stage scene at the start: many people arrive picturing being controlled, falling asleep or being made to give up secrets, so the first step is talking expectations through. This is not politeness. One experiment found that the same procedure produced a much stronger response to suggestion when it was called "hypnosis" than when it was called "relaxation"; expectation is part of how it works. The definitions researchers use describe a person responding to suggestion, not a person who has been taken over, and the therapist agrees beforehand that you can open your eyes and stop at any time.[1,2,5]
Hear it in a session
- Client
- Therapist
Let's be clear about what worries you first. What do you picture hypnosis to be?
- Client
- Therapist
That's not what we do here. You'll be able to hear me throughout, and you can open your eyes and say "stop" at any time. What I offer are suggestions, and you take up as much as you wish at your own pace. Is that all right?
- Client
- Therapist
Good. If it's comfortable, rest your eyes on a spot ahead and notice your breathing. The sounds and movement in the room can stay where they are; you don't need to deal with them.
- Therapist
Imagine yourself in a place that feels steady to you. You may notice that with each out-breath your shoulders can loosen a little. On the day of the scan you can come back to this place.
- Therapist
Now I'll count slowly to three and you can return to the room at your own pace and open your eyes. One, two, three. What was that like?
- Client
- Therapist
That's common. Let's treat it as a skill for now: practise with the recording a few times a day before the scan, and see next time how it went.
Notice: This is the opening of a session: preparation, a simple induction, one suggestion close to the goal, then re-alerting. The client is anxious about an MRI scan next week. The therapist asks about expectations and moves the "being controlled" picture back to "you are responding"; the agreement that she can stop at any time comes before the induction. The suggestion says "you may notice", leaving the client to decide how much to take up; afterwards the therapist asks about her actual experience, promises no result, and offers this as a practice rather than a one-off cure.


