Free e-mail course

Struggle to break the ice? — The Relationship Level-Up Pack

Psychologist Arthur Aron's research suggests two strangers can grow close fast — by asking each other the right personal questions.

Register free for the Relationship Level-Up Pack

Five days of practical psychology

Register free and over five days we'll e-mail you the conversation question list plus communication techniques — useful whether you're meeting new people or growing closer to a partner.

Regular e-mail lessons make building closeness easy.

Stage one — signal warmth and trust

Show curiosity and care, and share personally — your tastes, your values.

Stage two — from "me" to "we"

Reciprocal self-disclosure — longings and vulnerabilities — starts building shared hopes.

Stage three — drawing hearts closer

Deeper disclosure reaches each other's core values, with mutual respect and support.