Learning how to influence yourself and others is one of the core keys to a successful life. To genuinely build your influence, mastering the principle of commitment and consistency in psychology is an indispensable step. When we talk ourselves into completing tasks that look daunting yet matter deeply, we not only achieve personal growth — we also reach our goals far more methodically.
So let's uncover some practical methods together: how to grow your own influence, and create a more positive, fulfilling life and richer relationships along the way.
Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion — A Book That Opens Minds
This classic reveals the psychological principles that get people to say "YES!" These principles don't just change how we influence others; they also help us make wiser decisions in our own lives. Here are the three big benefits of learning to build your influence:
1) Make better choices: Learning to apply psychological strategies lets you steer your own choices more effectively, moving step by step towards success.
2) Strengthen your powers of persuasion: Master the secrets of persuading others, so people are more willing to back your ideas and plans, and your communication carries more weight.
3) Recognise outside influence: Understand in depth the psychological tactics others use, so you can avoid being unconsciously manipulated and keep your thinking clear.
Among these, commitment and consistency is one of the easiest psychological principles to put into practice. Whether you're motivating yourself or prompting others to act, this principle can have a remarkable effect. Have you ever completed a task you'd been hesitating over, simply because you'd made a commitment to it? This book will help you understand how to harness that psychological force to make life run more smoothly.
Commitment and Consistency: An Effective Principle for Motivating Yourself and Others
The heart of commitment and consistency lies in this: people want to keep their words and actions consistent (Cialdini, 2007). A public commitment generates a powerful inner drive, prompting people to be more focused and persistent. What's more, this principle is also very well suited to motivating others.
For example, when facing a challenging task that needs to get done, making a public commitment to a clear goal or timeline can help raise your level of focus. Likewise, getting others to make a commitment in public can effectively strengthen their willingness to act, because the psychological "need for consistency" prompts them to follow through on what they've promised.
Next time you set a goal, would you be willing to try committing to it publicly — to a friend or a colleague — and see whether it comes to fruition more quickly?
The Power of Commitment Calls for Care
Commitment is a powerful tool, but it needs to be used with care. Even a commitment you make reluctantly can shape your behaviour without you realising it. When people feel the psychological pressure of being "inconsistent", they tend to adjust their actions to match the commitment.
So before you make a commitment, it's worth asking yourself: does this fit my true goals? And if you find that a past commitment can't be fulfilled, it's more important to accept the inner "sense of inconsistency" than to betray what you really want. This helps you keep a clear sense of direction and avoid being swayed by influences you aren't aware of.
How Do You Influence Others Effectively?
If you want to motivate others, try getting them to make a commitment up front. In the workplace, for instance, having team members publicly confirm their tasks and timelines during a meeting can effectively strengthen everyone's drive to act. That's because a public commitment makes people feel social pressure, which in turn drives them to honour the commitment more diligently.
This approach suits more than just teamwork; it applies just as well in everyday life. Have you ever had a similar experience, where a public goal pushed things along to a smoother finish?
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References
Cialdini, R. B. (2007).Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion. New York: Harper Collins.
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